The Briar Patch: Thorny Challenges for Directors
Functionally
Dysfunctional: Where’s the Payoff?
Vic Pantesco, Ph.D.
The Thorn
There is no such thing as a “dysfunctional family”
or organization, or system, or couple, or individual, or clinic,
right? If you doubt
that, just try to change it.
All the parts are usually well honed and practiced,
functioning as usual.
Whether or not the system is healthy is another matter. And as we well know,
just announcing that sacred, unassailable label “dysfunctional”
doesn’t get us anywhere except for some comforting commiseration
maybe from those of like mind as we are in the assessment.
At
times I have observed some clinic cohorts to be on the weightier
end of the “dysfunctional” spectrum. It’s similar to when I
taught in high school and faculty fairly collectively regarded
whole classes as having a personality. In the non-clinical
diagnostic inquiry: “what is it with this group?” That may be the right
question but may lead up a wrong tree in response.
To Ease the Pain
In both therapy practice and directing a clinic, I
really enjoy challenging folks with a basic fact of organic
human life: the brain does NOTHING without a perceived payoff. It never sleeps in
this pursuit. If we
turn in our sleep, the brain and body have decided that’s a
better payoff than the previous posture. We did not need
behaviorism to discover this.
An
example in the clinic: I
notice that too many clinicians are not diligently entering
notes and other data into the case management program. This creates headaches
of various stripe and vigor.
As time passes and this continues, conversations with
selected individuals, yielding little or no progress in the
desired direction, I once again seek my dark chocolate stash and
other comforts.
But
consider this: taking the matter to a team meeting and instead
of berating, pleading, shoulding, or threatening – I speak from
experience with these - we offer instead: “I have noticed that
there is much not being put into the case management system as
required. I am
convinced it is because the payoff or benefit to neglecting this
duty outweighs the benefits of compliance. What are these payoffs
and how might we shift the balance?” This allows for even
deeper access to the team’s dynamics but through a much safer,
graded pathway. Regardless
of what we may call the formulation or its enactment, it seems,
at least for me, to have a much bigger payoff than the other
tactics.